A Journey Through Southeast Asia

A fisherman on his boat at Ubien Bridge | Yangon, Myanmar

A fisherman on his boat at Ubien Bridge | Yangon, Myanmar

Muddy rivers, mountainous views, smiling people in villages. The longest drives I have ever taken, the constant smell of fish, rice shared over long tables, a familiar culture spoken in an unfamiliar tongue. These are my memories of Southeast Asia.

I spent three weeks traveling across Cambodia, Myanmar and Thailand volunteering as a photographer for In Better Hands — a non-profit organization that helps trafficked children or children in danger of being trafficked in the area. I visited local churches, villages and safe homes located deep in the mountains and rural areas. It was one of the most difficult trips I have taken as an adult and one that I will not forget too soon.

I learned about Cambodia, the corruption related to human trafficking, and the poverty that results in children being sold by their parents. I traveled across Myanmar and learned about the ongoing civil war that has been raging in the country for 70 years. I read about the Rohingya refugees that are still under persecution and visited safe homes that used to be war zones a decade ago. I photographed children in safe homes that were lost without names and family as a result of the war. The hardest part of Thailand was witnessing young women that were just like me, working on the streets working in occupations that pretty much broke my heart. The worst was understanding that the trafficking industry is largely supported by tourists like you and me.

Group photo of a safe home in Tachileik, Myanmar. Each home consists of a pair of house parents and 10–12 children that are brought in from each area.

Group photo of a safe home in Tachileik, Myanmar. Each home consists of a pair of house parents and 10–12 children that are brought in from each area.

Girl with Thanaka makeup(Burmese sunscreen). Everyone wore traditional clothing for the photo shoot

Girl with Thanaka makeup(Burmese sunscreen). Everyone wore traditional clothing for the photo shoot

During my trip, I experienced a lot of self-doubt. A lot of wondering “How can something like this exist in the world?”. Some days it felt like the injustice was too much to take in and the easier thing to do would be to stay in my room and refuse to acknowledge these terrible truths. Yet as a photographer and someone who was raised half of my life in Asia  — I felt a sense of responsibility to share about what goes on outside the comfort of our daily lives.

Documenting a safe home in Pyin Oo Lwin village, Myanmar. Many of these children lost their homes to due to the civil war that has been going for the last 70 years. Most of these children don’t know their names, age or where they are from.

Documenting a safe home in Pyin Oo Lwin village, Myanmar. Many of these children lost their homes to due to the civil war that has been going for the last 70 years. Most of these children don’t know their names, age or where they are from.

Despite the harsh conditions — my photo shoots were filled with the brightest of smiles

Despite the harsh conditions — my photo shoots were filled with the brightest of smiles

The things I took away from this trip was that is was okay with not be comfortable, and understanding that it will always be a challenge working on issues that are easier to ignore. I grew in empathy and listening to people that are from cultures different than mine. I grew in compassion   for people that live in places far away and for people that are close to home.

The beautiful Khutodaw Pagoda in Mandalay, Myanmar

The beautiful Khutodaw Pagoda in Mandalay, Myanmar

Kitty resting in the sun

Kitty resting in the sun

Southeast Asia was beautiful. It is a place that is raw, mysterious, and pure. There were moments where I found contentment walking through the countless pagodas, scouting locations, and enjoying the hospitality of the locals. There are beautiful places that are yet to be touched by western culture. It is a place where people value simple things — family, food, shelter. A job to provide all the above.

To conclude, I am encouraged coming back to North America. People have asked me what I took away from this trip. My answer is — be here now, be present, love people that are in your life now. Read Everybody, Always by Bob Goff. Start where you are.

Travel is really understanding that that world is immensely beautiful and broken. It is finding an urgency and purpose in creating beauty and knowing that your voice matters. It is making a choice to keep reflecting what is good, beautiful and true.

It’s going to be good.

Sunset at Ubien Bridge, Mandalay

Sunset at Ubien Bridge, Mandalay

Learn more about my GoFundMe project here or directly support the organization In Better Hands here.

Toronto City Guide: 10 places to eat, visit and photograph

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Taking in the city from the CN Tower

The last time I was in Toronto was two decades ago when my parents took us on a family holiday to Niagara Falls shortly after we moved to Canada. I remember being drenched in my raincoat under the falls and the thrill of knowing I was in a place where everything seemed new and exciting. It was wonderful to be back and experience the city as an adult, this time accompanied by my camera.

Toronto was fast-paced, it was cold, grey and diverse. I stayed in the heart of downtown where high rises loomed like giraffes and everyone seemed like they had a place to go. The city felt a little overwhelming for a newcomer but the temptation to explore was far too great to keep me at home. I loved the excitement of knowing there was so much to see and enjoyed discovering the pockets of peace and quiet in a bustling city.

Here are a few of my favorite places:

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Eat

1. Baddies Cafe

The story behind Baddies is that Alex (the owner) found himself with the space after his dad passed away without realizing his dream of opening a cafe. Needless to say, that was exactly what Alex did. The words "You Beauty" written on the walls are favorite quotes from his dad, whom you can find in photographs on the cafe walls. The chia pudding tasted as delicious as it looked and the smashed avocado on polenta with chili jam reminded me of India and all that is well in the world.

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2. The Drake Hotel

I have always been a fan of The Drake General Store and was extra excited to visit the hotel known for brunch and quirky interiors. The chicken and waffles were delicious and meant to be shared with at least two friends.

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See

3. Art Gallery of Ontario

The AGO was by far my favorite place in the city with it's an abundance of exhibitions, the beautiful space designed by architect Frank Gehry with a little cafe to sit and watch the city go by. If you are an art nerd like me don't miss out on the AGO.

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4. Aga Khan Museum

I could have spent an entire day at the Aga Khan marveling at the architecture and reading books on Persian folklore in the museum library. I am always amazed by the intricacy of middle eastern art and the space is beautiful with a great curation of artifacts and modern Islamic and Persian Art. The museum is a trip out of the city but definitely worth the trip.

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5. Sugar Beach

I am in love with the water and look for it wherever I go. Here I found a peaceful corner of Toronto and stood here taking in the sunset, beautiful even in the cold of winter. I can imagine coming here often in the summer.

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6. University of Toronto

The interiors of the Trinity Chapel was what drew me to this location. There is so much history about the campus grounds and the university felt like another city to explore in itself. The campus is best to walk around with a local friend.

Do

7. CN Tower

If it's your first time visiting Toronto I recommend checking out the cityscape and nearby islands from 180 floors up in the sky. The view is breathtaking and the CN Tower is next to the Aquarium which makes it a great outing for families and children.

8. Ripley's Aquarium

If you love sea animals and fish Ripley's is your ideal place to visit. The stingray tank was like a giant lake and I loved the underwater tunnel and interactive areas where you get to pet sleeping sharks and hold tiny shrimp.

Shop

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9. SOUVENIR

A minimalistic boutique shop and studio on College Street run by Danielle. An inspiring place for the creative. The area reminded me so much of New York and here I found familiar brands from Vancouver and a beautiful curation of gifts and souvenirs. Queen Street is also a lovely place with shops like Old Faithful, Warby Parker, and countless boutiques. My favorite concept lifestyle store Mjolk Shop is just a little further away.

Stay

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10.  The Hazelton Hotel

If you're looking for a restful night at boutique hotel in Toronto, this is it. I spent an evening at the Hazelton with my sister and had a restful time. The neighborhood is beautiful though I have to say nothing beat the blueberry pancakes that arrived in the morning. The staff was very personal which made it a great stay.

Other than that, Ossington, Koreatown, and The Distillery District were places I wish I had more time to explore. The diversity of Toronto is amazing and despite being fast-paced, everyone seems very willing to stop and point travelers in the right direction. I felt tiny in the city but found comfort in discovering areas that reminded me of home and connecting with an array of interesting people. I hope to be back again.

Till next time, Toronto.

Story and photography created in partnership with Tourism Toronto.